Eleanor Oliphant is completely fine
Gail Honeyman (2017; Penguin, 2018)
I was raised with this lesson in perspective, presented as a model of the three persons of the nominative case: “She is neurotic; You are tetchy; I am perfectly all right, thank you very much.” That’s what I expected from the title, and this novel delivers. Eleanor Oliphant (Ms.), is judgmental and persnickety, and a thoroughly unreliable narrator. This can mainly be blamed on her mother, who was pretty damned unreliable herself, but also a fount of snobbish views and advice.
The effect is comic, on the whole, especially when the contradiction pays off immediately. Eleanor is obviously the weirdest person in her office, but that fact is not part of her world view. “Their laughter seemed to have turned into low whispering now. It never ceases to amaze me, the things they find interesting, amusing or unusual. I can only assume they’ve led very sheltered lives.” Well, that’s as may be, but it’s pretty rich coming from someone who has never had a guest in her flat, or gone out to a pub with a friend.
The story unfolds very deliberately, so I’m wary of spoilers, but there are some dark flashes right from the start. Her employment history, for instance: “Bob, the owner, took me on not long after the office opened. I suppose he felt sorry for me. I had a degree in Classics and no work experience to speak of, and I turned up for the interview with a black eye, a couple of missing teeth and a broken arm.” Wait, what? That’s a different kind of rom com.
Yet Eleanor is having something of a revitalization moment, a handsome local singer having caught her eye. She goes so far as to buy a home computer in order to cyber-stalk him. She’s not really focusing on how unlikely it is that such a one will choose a twenty-nine-year-old spinster with ancient scars on her face, even supposing she can arrange a chance meeting. It’s also rather unlikely that he is as charming as he is handsome, though time will tell.
Meanwhile, Raymond, the new IT guy at work, has gotten Eleanor involved with a stranger, a man they called an ambulance for when he collapsed in the street. Raymond has the helpful instincts, and the cell phone, that she lacks; somehow he coaches her through hospital visits, and the social overtures the man’s family makes. She’s still muttering to herself about his wearing trainers all the time, and his casual texting habits, but she really needs a friend, and she accidentally finds a great one.
Eleanor Oliphant, for all her quirks, is a sympathetic character. I think we can relate to her suspicion of the unknown, and her pleasure at softening to it. She has a friend in Raymond partly because he’s good at friendship, but also because she’s so peculiarly herself. Really, it gives me hope.
Any Good Books, August 2025